After 75 years, the hidden memories of India&s partition are rising up through Britain's generations | Kavita Puri

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Two sisters handed me a piece of paper that was faded and yellow
On it were typewritten words from their father
He had died in the 1990s and his final request had been for his ashes to be divided up and scattered in three different places: the Punjabi
These three places made up his life, from displacement to India from Pakistan during partition, and then his migration to Britain
He felt he belonged in each one of them, wanting some part of him to remain, in death as in life.Five years ago, I started collecting
testimonies of the people in Britain who lived through the tumultuous events of partition
I quickly realised it was not a story from far away, but one that was all around us in Britain, with a continuing legacy.The division of
British India along religious lines in 1947, into Hindu-majority India and Muslim-majority Pakistan, resulted in the largest migration
outside wartime and famine in human history
As people found themselves a minority in a new country, an estimated 10-12 million people moved across a new border, leaving homes that had
been lived in for generations
About a million people were killed in communal violence
partition, as those who migrated from the Indian subcontinent in the early postwar years were largely from places disrupted by it
They came to rebuild the country and their own lives
They arrived with those memories, which were rarely spoken out loud
But in 2017, during the 70th anniversary of partition, that silence began to break.I travelled across Britain and was told shattering
stories
I met a man with a 70-year-old scar indelibly etched on his arm from a poisoned spear
I cannot forget the sound of anguish he made as he explained he was left for dead, and almost died, as a mob entered his village
I listened as an elderly man sounded almost childlike as he described the horrors of waking up on a train platform full of dead bodies
A woman talked of overhearing her uncles planning to kill all the girls in her family to save them from dishonour, such was the fear of
sexual violence
Her grandmother talked them down
So many stories like these had largely been hidden for decades, by people who live among us, and who still have nightmares from that time
And we never knew.But the partition generation told other stories too, that they want remembered
One man told me how a Muslim woman from his village breastfed his Sikh cousins after their mother died
One man told me that on the day a Muslim mob killed his father, his Muslim neighbour saved his sister and 30 other Sikh girls by sheltering
them in his home.Now, that generation wonder out loud if they will ever visit their ancestral home before they die
Will they ever see the childhood best friend they never had time to say goodbye to? Does a favourite tree they climbed up still stand?What I
never imagined when I embarked on these interviews was that the legacy of partition in the UK could be so varied and complex
Trauma and fear can be passed down, even in silence
But so too can that lasting tie to the land that was left, even if no one returned
Sometimes that attachment is tangible
I have seen descendants who keep earth in a jar from Bangladesh on their fireplace, or who wear a pebble from Pakistan around their neck
These objects are often their only connection to that time and place
It is proof their family once existed in that land too, and it is meaningful to these young people today.Muslim refugees prepare to flee
India in September 1947
Photograph: APIn all this time, the border has never been able to erase this history, memories or emotion
And in the five years since the 70th anniversary, there has been a quiet awakening to this hidden past among the descendants of those who
lived through it
affected
For others, it has been the realisation that the beginnings of their family story can be traced to another country entirely, across a
border.I have seen descendants with earth in a jar, from a land their forefathers left almost 75 years agoMany of those who contacted me to
share their stories were third generation
They wanted to know their history beyond their ancestors who came here
members, visiting archives, educating themselves on their history, doing DNA tests and, in some cases, even returning to the land long
even than their parents
Subjects of the Raj came to Britain and are its citizens, and multiple generations live in these isles in their millions today
that everyone needs to know and learn about
Yet, it is not a compulsory part of the national curriculum in England
In Wales, Black, Asian and minority ethnic histories will become mandatory teachings from September.As we approach the August anniversary,
it is always bittersweet: joy at independence, but sadness at the loss suffered, which endures
A few days ago, I was emailed by a daughter to say her father, one of my interviewees, had died at the age of 92
A reminder that our link to this time is dwindling.Seventy-five years on, in Britain we are all the inheritors of partition and empire
We must decide what to do with this inheritance; decide what is remembered and what is forgotten
The legacy will live on in ways we do not yet know
Kavita Puri is the author of Partition Voices: Untold British Stories, a new edition of which is published on 21 July
Her documentary, Inheritors of Partition, will be broadcast on BBC Radio 4 on 8 August at 9am and will be available on BBC Sounds
This article first appeared/also appeared in theguardian.com